Category: Wellness
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The Two Certainties of Life

“The only two certainties in life are death and taxes.” A popular saying spanning across hundreds of years and still holding truth until this day. The more i think about it, the darker the phrase becomes. It speaks to me that no matter how prepared you are for anything, you still won’t be ready until…
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The Bravery to Fail

There is a small moment right before a decision has to be made where the possibility to alter and change the course of one’s life exists. That or perhaps the lack there of. Sometimes, we do not realize the severity in the moment and to others, that moment means nothing at all. It seems like…
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We are Only Human

It is normal for us to try our very best and still fail. We can come with the purest of intentions and still hurt the person across from us. We can be quick to judge and slaves to our egos – for we are only human. Now being human is something we all have in…
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You Have All the Time in the World

We all have the same 24 hours in the day. Some of us are blessed with more days. None of us are guaranteed tomorrow. Life gets busy and can get overwhelming at times. We seem too busy with certain things that we can feel like we don’t have time for the things we want to…
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Accepting Love Starts with Accepting Yourself

It’s quite funny that the person that is supposed to love you the most is the person that can hurt you the most. I am not referring to your partner or your parents or your friends for that matter. I am talking about the one person who is always there with you: yourself. Although a…
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Don’t Confuse Uncomfortable for Unsafe

Uncomfortable in my body feels like a pit in my stomach and a weight on my shoulders. I feel myself get smaller. It’s the sensation of being cornered with nowhere to escape. It’s the space of awkwardness and unease. From what I have experienced in life, being uncomfortable meant that something isn’t right or the…
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The Day I Decided to Stop ‘Fixing’ People

I have this best friend. We started becoming close around two years ago when the COVID pandemic was just starting. Like most friendships, our relationship blossomed over shared interests and common experiences. Even though personality wise we are total opposites, we really bonded. We began working together, hanging out all the time, and having lots…
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Emotions and Feelings

Emotions and feelings are commonly used interchangeably but when you look at them more closely, there are some slight differences to be aware of. Emotions are objective and happen to us instinctively. Depending on who you ask, emotions may vary. According to the Junto Institute for Entrepreneurial Leadership, the basic emotions that we feel are…
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The Savage Cycle of Choosing the Wrong Person

“I always date assholes” or “I have bad taste in (wo)men”. Have you ever said this before or have heard a friend say it? In a world and time where we seem to get out less and log on more, there seems to be a lack of communication fundamentally. In my social circles, texting is…
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Are You Here?

Not physically, obviously; I’m talking about this very moment. Are you present or are you living in the anxieties of the future or the trauma of the past? The present is a magical place. It can refer to your location and the environment you are in. Deeper than that, I know where I physically am…
